Transitions in Life

We’re constantly going thru transitions in life. Life itself is a transitional phase in time, to the unknown. We go through what most would consider big transitional phases like falling in love, getting married, career related changes, the death and loss of loved ones. On a smaller scale we’re transitioning from month to month, minute to minute, moment to moment. Transitions, like time, seem to happen to us. Although with transitions we have more of a say, more of an influence. Whereas time happens in spite of us all. The question is; what’s the best way to deal with transitions?

Obviously the nuance to every type of transition would have their own set of options.

Should I take the job or not?

Should I exercise more or not?

Those decisions made in the midsts of transition will be situational and case-by-case. Generally speaking however, I think it may be best to approach such moments with grace. Be principled and open to unexpected change. Be ready and willing to pivot if needed.

Be grounded in what got you to the dance but able to take another route back home.

Know/set your price and limits going in, so that you’re tethered to a sense of ‘you.’

But keep in mind that this is just to create an additional option for yourself. Because the you of yesterday may not be the same as the you of today or tomorrow, when it comes to these transitions.

That’s my approach, currently. Tweak as needed on your end. Find your own way to elegantly ride the waves of transition.

~Wednesday 10.18.2017 @4:25pm IST

Happy Diwali